We are not necessarily called to follow the current trend. Some trends are contrary to what God says is right. In these cases, instead of doing what is popular in our culture, we must go counter-culture and do what is right according to the word of God.
Be rooted and grounded in the Word.
When we look at the truth of the word of God, it reflects back the reality of how sinful we all, sometimes are.
At this point we either rebel and disobey or conform and begin our transformation.